Why did Kris leave? She's the one who created this meme, shouldn't she still be here?
She had personal reasons for leaving to benefit her health. Health is the most important thing to care about, she left it in capable hands.
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#good bye and i love you i hope you know i am sorry for failing you
So I’ve been meaning to say this for a while but I’m overly sentimental and attached and didn’t want to do the thing but, I’m going to leave yall beauties & modding at perfectionistpolar bear!
I love you! I really do! But I’m a shit mod, I’ve been inactive for so so long and I’ve done nothing to help other lil polarbears out there!
I’m so so sorry! I really hope you can forgive me and I love you guys a whole lot!
I’m still on tumblr and surely won’t be leaving for a while, triplash.tumblr.com
and I also still mod at the ladies room! Called the ladies room as we’re all ladies but open for all questions.
I love you I truly really do I love you, I hope you are all going to be well and I love you and please prosper and live well!
I was dying to
That I didn’t need
to try so hard to be perfect,
That i was enough
it was okay.
(1)i realized today that i've been being a perfectionist with my leadership in an organization. I didn't realize it before because I always thought that perfectionism was paying attention to the tiniest details but still completing them. What's happening with me is that i'm faced with a large goal and get overwhelmed because it's so huge and i feel like i'm the only one that can take care of it, i can't break this goal down into little goals. and then i get so overwhelmed about it that i just
(2) can’t complete the task because i know i’ll mess it up. and then i feel like any shortcomings in the organization are my fault. i’m seeing a therapist about it now but i just thought i’d say that
Firstly finding out what unhelping behaviors you indulge in is great, its the first step toward beating them! Perfectionists definitely experience what you describe, you desire to do something so perfectly you look at all the parts but then all those parts make the whole look twice as large, a task too large to accomplish and so you refrain from begining as you fear you will never end, in the manner you wish.
I’m super glad you’re seeing a therapist! Talking over behaviors like this is definitely a help and also thank you for sharing with us!
I know what its like to take the short comings of a group as your personal failings but it is definitely not that way in reality.
You are wonderful friend, you’ve got this I know. You’ll make it